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Do you think people often say 'sorry' when they don't really mean it?#Do you think every 'sorry' is from the bottom of the heart?
Vocabulary hozircha yo‘q.
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- • Many people say ‘sorry' ‘cause:
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it's a social rule -
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it's polite to do so -
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it's nothing more than an automatic reaction -
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they are used to doing so if they've done something wrong and want to fix things -
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they know they are expected to do so if they've hurt someone -
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they know they should do so if they want to remedy the situation -
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they know this is exactly what they need to do if they did something wrong -
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it's a means to end a dispute that the apologizer would prefer to avoid, often for lack of caring -
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they know that this is what another person wants to hear -
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they do it by reflex
Yeah, unfortunately, in many cases it's nothing more than an automatic reaction, a reflex. And people say ‘sorry' just because they are used to doing so or just because it's polite to do so. I guess this happens because parents force children to say ‘sorry' if children do something wrong. But this simply forces a lame, insincere ‘sorry' statement without changing any behavior. Children know that if they've hurt someone, ‘sorry' is what everybody expects them to say to remedy the situation. Also, some people say ‘sorry' to manipulate others. For example, they know that this is what another person wants to hear. So it's just a means to end a dispute that the apologizer would prefer to avoid, often for lack of caring.
Shaxsiy yozuvlarni saqlash uchun tizimga kiring.
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